Something Like
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Dating with Discernment
Something Like This
The Emotional-Kinesthetics of Surrendering to Love's Embrace
This 90 Minute workshop is here to offer you the embodied template and tone of being surrendered in safe loving partnership.
This is a posture you can curate and maintain while single and dating, one which feels empowering, easy, and secure.
Something Faithful
Belief Systems and Real World Practices
So much of the dating landscape is based in scarcity, lack, fear, complaint, criticism, and the overall orientation to the idea there's "no one out there." People claim to have trust issues, but trust is about whether you'll get the resource or not.
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Faith is a matter of whether the resource exists at all.
Something Focused
Investing your sacred, finite, Time, Energy, and Attention
Learning to discern Signal vs noise.
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The attentional metrics required to show you what you want in men, learning how see some of it in every man so you know how to see all of it in YOUR man.
The release of attention and energy on all men who are not your husband, on searching, on striving, on wondering and waiting.
The precise and gracious receiving of what is on offer, the subconscious filtering out of what, of what is on offer, is not for you.
Something For You
Not for men, for YOU
Not preparing yourself to find a husband, preparing yourself to be a wife to the masculine as it presents in men.
Not for them, for you.
For what happens, the miracles of experience which await you when your life's focus is consumed by love, and your love's focus is on safety, respect, understanding, generosity, nourishment, and stability.
Something Unique
Your Unique Wifeyness
Dropping away other definitions of wifehood, spouseship, partnership, tHE fEmiNiNE, getting clear on the exact way you do it, based on how you delight to show up to your current life right now.
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Homing in on the way the beingness of partnership looks on you, beginning the refinement before he arrives.
Something Generative
Harmony Doesn't Require Much Energy
A devoted partnership, a relationship in harmony and peace, requires very little energy and attention. It's two adults living alongside each other.
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Its thriving actually depends upon having energetic OUTLETS, because the partnership itself generates energy and operates so efficiently that there is creative potential available at all times.
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This is something incompatibility clouds us from understanding. Incompatibility has led to relationships which consume energy. Navigating compatibility requires us to know how to wield the energy we GAIN from generative partnership.
Full of Complaints About Men?
We Call that "Distracted Dating"
In this house, we do not criticize or complain about men.
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We show up for what we DO admire, and then we're too busy for anything we don't admire.
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And I do mean admiration.
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Outright admiration.
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The humbling kind.
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The kind of admiration that makes you want to treat a man with respect and cherish his heart, cultivate and uplift his self-image. The kind that makes you want to follow his lead, the constant "yes" sourced from the fact that he never presents a deniable offer.
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The kind of admiration that makes you realize what you could be if you let yourself have a man like THAT providing what he loves to provide.
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The kind of admiration you want to have for your husband.
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Perhaps you think you can hold out for it, that you'll find this practice of admiration when something admirable FINALLY crosses your path.
But you are blinded by your practice of criticism and complaint.
Your practice of attentional devotion is to noticing what upsets, disappoints, and fails you in the world, at least in part, and it clouds what you are willing to show up for.
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Because you allow yourself to criticize and complain, you are able to show up for standards which inspire criticism and complaint.
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Something of what is admirable is guaranteed to disappoint you, and if you rate these experiences as attentionally more important than admiration, you will grasp but never hold the love you desire.
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When you commit to a practice of admiration, you can no longer show up for anything which inspires criticism or complaint. Your commitment compels you to look in another direction, toward something admirable.
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When you are consumed with admiration, disappointment is rare, and expectations are unnecessary. You appreciate what has happened and what is happening, so much so that you do not need any future story to attain bliss.
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When you are consumed with admiration, complaints and criticisms which surface are red flags within you, warning you of incompatibility. Admiration is the zone where your relational investment belongs. If you find your investments inspire complaint or criticism, you immediately re-evaluate those investments.
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In the here and now, admiration FEELS AMAZING.
Admiration of what you love in the world is AVAILABLE ALWAYS.
Admiration is a state where you are RADIANT, CONFIDENT, GLOWING.
Admiration is a generous way to ALWAYS BE GIVING THE LOVE THAT YOU ARE.
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Admire what you love in the world, and in men around you. Do not wait for one man, because to wait for him is to ask him to suffer your clumsy beginnings. Learn it now, he is worthy of your refinement.
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Put your attention on what you love. That is the realm which contains the one you will love the very most.
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Something Like This,
Yes, Thank You,
Something Like This.
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90-Minute Workshop
Something Like This is a dating strategy I can deliver to an individual in about 20 minutes and revolutionize their experience of dating ever-after. In this 90 minute workshop, you not only receive my expertise, you'll be exposed to the examples of other participants, rounding out your understanding of how to apply this information, and what of it doesn't apply for you.
Teaching AND Coaching
This is a workshop where you will be using your voice, sharing your thoughts, and receiving targeted coaching. I'll be teaching intricately nuanced concepts and practices you can apply to your life right now, and if you don't know how, you'll have time to ASK.
Results in your BODY
Can changing how you think about dating change how you feel? It has for me. Now that I know how to place my attention, where to place my trust, how to use my imagination to serve me, dating is easy, surrendered bliss. My body is relaxed, intuitive, intelligent, my mind dwells on my delights.
Stay Connected
Those who show up on this call will be invited to an exclusive private facebook group just for attendees of this workshop. Keep in touch with each other and with the thread of Devotional Love, receive qualified support in your new posture of dating and partnership.