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I am here for those who are interested in internal and lifestyle  refinement 


You have already polished off your rough edges. 


You can see your projections, you can do all the work. 


What you need now is an upgraded template.


A template tuned to luxury and abundance


yet one which honors the savage realities of being human,


being intimate with life.


Rather than healing from life, working on life, or even getting off on life,
devoting to your holistic experience of your life, and noticing the way this infuses your external relationships with softness, graciousness, vulnerability, tenderness. 


Not to sit in ceremony, not to gather at festivals, not to bliss out,

--though you should, you should--


To look your neighbor in the eye.


To find common ground before trying to get someone to walk with you.

 
To collaborate in lighthearted creativity, because you deserve the focus and relaxation of a mind simply engaged with the delights and challenges of being alive. 


Everything you picked up was necessary


as it is now necessary to put some things down, away in storage, because you fixed the roof RIGHT, and it isn't likely to leak. 


What does it mean to live in that safe house you fixed up from what you inherited? 


What does it mean to put away the tools and choose the furniture, how do you select and receive your guests?


When you tidy, it's not from a construction project. The quality is gentle and devotional. There is nowhere to get, nowhere else to go. You are home. 

Now what?

What's the Vision?

Which of these describes your situation?

Integration

You have been a student for so long. You have a sense, as always, that there is more to learn, but there's already so much you've learned, so much you judge that you have not yet been able to implement. What you need now is better context. There are teachers all over this world with the essential knowledge, the content that you need to live an empowered, fulfilled, exciting life. But where do you find the wisdom, the essential context to apply the content fueling empowerment, fulfillment, and excitement? That is what is here for you, here and now. My work is about REALITY, and when we refine together, we refine to the ease of putting the content in cooperation with the context of reality--that's integration. We bring your techniques and tools and skills and knowledge all the way down to the ground of your real life as it is happening now. We refine to a tone, which can contain and contextualize all experiences, all communication styles, all beliefs which are in right-relationship with reality. The root of integration is integrity. Integrity is right-relationship. This is not moral rightness, but structural rightness, the way 90 degree corners make a building that stands strong. Integrity is about being as you represent yourself, so that the surface matches the depths, so that whatever you offer, others know they can count on it. This integrity is palpable. You can feel it if you need it. Others can feel it when you have it.

Do I stay or do I go?

You wonder, should I stay or should I go? Maybe for years Maybe some part of you has wondered all along What you’re staying for is always changing Or maybe it isn’t changing enough Where you’d go has always been a mystery It’s a curtain you have maybe barely peeked behind But you have no clear picture of what lies beyond (If you think you have a clear picture, let me assure you, it is distorted in ways you might not be able to imagine.) No, you don’t imagine it clearly, because then it ceases to be an amorphous refuge, something sure to save you if things here get bad enough. Nor are you prepared to confront the way so much of your life would remain the same, how much of your pain is squarely within you, how convenient it is to have that other person, that challenging situation around, seeming like the frustrated solution. This, too, is a refuge, because some part of you knows there are elements here you might own more fully to experience quite differently. But your framing says you need to stop doing that thing, the other person is not offering you enough, always vague enough to be the thing that could save the day. Never clarifying, it remains the thing that could become clear in any moment. The consciousness of a gambler. My love, I do not care if you stay or if you go (In part, that qualifies me to reflect you in this liminal space, whereas others in your life may bear an agenda or form a record of this time which impacts all your village going forward) I care that you are at peace with the way you are spending the sacred moments of your precious, one and only life. I care that you agree with your life. Maybe nothing about your life needs to change for that to happen. Maybe everything about your life needs to change for that to happen. But almost always, the answer is in the nuanced in-between, tuning how you are who you are as well as what you show up to participate in. You know this, and it’s part of what has you paralyzed. I don’t want to panic you with urgency, that these days are passing you by, that they are countable, though their number is unknowable. That urgency is already within you, driving chaos where you might have order and clarity. I want to reify your process with the gentle reality that these moments right now are the sacred entirety of the experience available to you. I want to show you the tools you already know, set deep in the fundament of your love for others, the world, this human experience, and yourself. I want to help you refine your technique to apply those tools with skill and precision to honor and uplift the sacredness right now, to develop the capacity to manage fear while tuning to love. I want you to arrive at the peace of either decision, or neither decision, I want to explore with you infinite other positive real visions of how your nuanced, mostly-wonderful life could feel more exquisitely YOURS, more refined, more curated, more sumptuous and satisfying. I want to help you stand squarely in the reality of a life that’s deliciously FOR you, one that makes you want to BE HERE NOW.

The Business of Devotion

You got into business because your soul called you to it. This is a business unlike other businesses. This is a business led by your love, which feels like a weird thing to be selling, yet it's something you want to (NEED to) profit from. Your work needs to be in the world. Your bills need to get paid. You need to make money in order to keep your work in the world, your SELF nourished, and your time available for this single most sacred thing. YET... In order to make money, you need.... to market. You need... to make sales. You need... structures of service to you. You need... firm and clear boundaries. You need... periods of rest, standards of prosperity, energetics of wealth. Does it feel icky or unattainable? Does it feel counterintuitive? I swear to you it does not have to. The Business of Devotion is about cleaning up the energetics within and without so that you feel good about being in business, marketing, making sales, and cashing in BIG money. The Business of Devotion is about understanding the way that systems and structures serve your business and where they may be required. This tone of love and goodwill combined with structural integrity weaves together to facilitate your most easeful relationship to your business. You come to know and LOVE the integral systems and practical actions your business requires. This is when your business feels as though it is running itself, feels like you CAN'T NOT show up for it. That's the Business of Devotion.

Opening Up

However things are going in your partnership, they're entering uncharted territory-- you've decided to open up. I know what you'll find when you turn to most of the literature--ways to deal with discomfort, jealousy, ways to reframe partnership to "make room" for intimacy with more than just your one partner. You have probably read these books, consumed the media, gritted your teeth, and prepared to meet the challenge. Yet, I want you to know, it doesn't have to be that challenging. I want you to know that many of these resources maintain the frameworks of investment in delusion and projection which is the fatal flaw of what we call "monogamy" right now. Opening up does not have to be challenging. It does not have to be a minefield of jealousy and insecurity. Opening your life to more lovers is opening your system to more resource. More energy in the system naturally reveals the leaks and inefficiencies, and if they're large enough, the system will break. But if you walk forward with skill, if you have precise guidance, if you can add resources to your life in sustainable ways (investing in DEVOTION rather than DELUSION), opening up can create the harmonious community you have always dreamed was possible. Opening up means more love. It means more time to yourself and with others. It creates spaciousness and graciousness. It means more attention for everyone involved. It means more nourishment for the entire dynamic system. Opening up can show you the way that all these partnerships are actually CONTEXT for your life, healing you forever from seeking relationships to provide whatever content you think is missing on a given day. If you open up the same way most people do dating and relationships these days, you're entering a minefield. If you implement Devotion to smooth this process, you're leveling up love in every area of your life.

What is Intuitive-Unlimited?

A mentorship container with me is a meta-experience, in that the way you get to BE in our relationship is how you're learning who you want to be, and how you *get to be,* in every other area of your life. That means that our work together honors you as the sole authority, while I merely facilitate your relationship to that authority.

 

It means that our work does not treat you as someone who needs help, or me as a necessary helper, but instead honors that we are in an emergent relationship in service to you, centering and refining your experience. The practice of being in this emergence together is the template you come to me to receive, when you have a knowing that I am the practitioner for you. 

The container is Intuitive in that I trust you to know what you need. You may reschedule, cancel, be late, adjust the time, adjust the platform, and otherwise tune our meetings to your luxury and delight with no shame or consequence. This is a model for the abundant boundaries required for Devotional Love, the way true collaboration does not rely on rule and enforcement, the way trust and respect may replace any and all preformed agreements. 

The container is Unlimited in that you are finding your own inner limits for receiving. I trust you to calibrate your consumption to your learning speeds, preferences, capacities, and availability. I trust that every session will leave you brimming with possibilities, in a peace free of undercurrents, and that my availability will be more than enough to serve your capacity.

 

I remain within the scope of my service to you, as a friendly and accessible channel of a source to which you are unconditionally connected. Externally imposed limits are unnecessary, we come together according to our mutual availability and our desire to be in connection, and this practical example ripples softness, surrender, and sovereignty throughout the rest of your life and relationships. 

LET'S WORK TOGETHER

In martial arts, there is a saying,

"Slow is smooth, smooth is fast."

My clients create "results" quickly because our process slows them all the way down to now, which is the only possible time anything can happen.

We get aligned with an intentional tonal orientation to what is *really here now,* and that practice allows them to open their receiving, dropping the distraction of "waiting" and "creating" practices which are based in not-having.

When you are slow with you, the process is smooth, and then it feels like what you wanted for so long is coming FAST.

This is the real transition, the real magic--finding the beingness that you associate with the havingness, finally allowing havingness to be your beingness.

This sounds vague because it is incredibly nuanced and specific. The practical applications to your unique situation are just that, unique, and incredibly practical.

 

They are things to DO, (not just an endless list of things to "not-do" which is literally delusional and impossible) there are actions, practices, habits to cultivate, and a disposition to choose and tend each day.

 

There is a perfect balance of maintenance and entropy that you can apply to your life to experience ease, peace, and safety.

If you want to apply this as a practice to your life, one session with me will gift you with implications and applications to ponder for the next several years. Our long-term work together will help you land these practices in your body and life with gentleness and love, not to mention maximum efficiency.

I promise, you are worthy of this now, and the thing you are waiting for is not a thing, but a practice of waiting. You are sure to end up acting now, whenever that happens to be.

The work begins with booking a discovery call. These containers are available in 3, 6, and 12 month terms, and offer you the ultimate flexibility to meet when and how you want, and to receive support between sessions. 

The base cost of these packages is $1100/month, reduced according to the term-length of your package. 

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