"I've been setting boundaries and losing a lot of people from my life. How can I know that I'm not just enacting my wounding and pushing...

Your lack of boundaries is a boundary. Your refusal to set boundaries is a boundary. Your refusal to hold boundaries is a boundary. It's...

Our physical intimacy begins with how he doesn’t touch me. The kinds of touches he never administers—no grabbing my body to feel secure,...

I do not look for red flags in others' behavior. That's a losing game--it keeps me focused on the other person and whether their behavior...

I got the nudge to ask my facebook community about serial monogamy, and boy am I glad I did. Next week I'm hosting a 15 minute panel...

Exquisite providership is easy to ignore or miss entirely. Exquisite providership is like fresh, clean, air. It is effortless to breathe,...

Many women come to me wanting to be more feminine, and they think that this will happen through them relaxing. It doesn't happen like...

Carry Artist is a group course for men. It's designed to help men artfully carry themselves and their relationship, and artfully NOT...

This week has really brought up the question "why am I even alive?" I believe there is (and was for me this week) a great chasm between...

I remember a high school teacher snorting about the weight loss movement for girls. He said "why do women always want to lose weight......

There’s a polarity conversation going on about how femininity changes relationships and changes men. Let me be clear: nothing will change...

"I have trouble opening up." When I meet him, I tell him I'm a coach, and this is the first thing he says to me. I'm confused. This man...